last week in list form

[chase_acow]

we buried grandma. it was a weird funeral. mom wasn't going to buy any flowers until I insisted and it would have actually been depressing otherwise. she played Alan Jackson gospel things and we all finally lost it. I recouped by getting the director to play Reindeer Boogie which was the xmas song gma tortured us all with every year.

she's wasn't really a friend and she hasn't been a coworker since xmas when she escaped this hellhole, but I liked her, she was pretty, and she killed herself last tuesday

the last dog I loved, the one I raised for my old roommate couldn't breathe and the vet found a tumor on his heart and he had to be put down. I didn't get to pat his head one more time


I had a really good day going to the lake yesterday morning. It was perfect. Cool, still, quiet. I'm a little sore.

avoidant cat has started being more social. she comes out and sits with me and she lets the dog get a little closer than normal. idk what changed, if it was the addition of gma's little dog to our pack or what, but I'm so happy

Comments

[8hyenas]

i'm sorry you had to go through that all at once, it's awful and i hope you get less sad as time passes

My RL sympathy mode doesn't translate to text well as I tend to just try and radiate comfort while lumping next to the person. Like a horse with understanding eyes. But I sincerely hope you have a good day, with lots of shining moments.

[tabaqui]

I am so very, very sorry, for all your losses.
*hugs*

I'm glad you had a good day at the lake, and the cat seems happier; good things.
*hugs more*

[peoriapeoriawhereart]

Wonder if avoidant cat is taking small dog addition as sign the pride is in good shape and is thus unfolding from "everything bad" mode.

Offers Sam, Bucky and a more Fraction Clint playing a toss game.

[jesuswasbatman]

I'm sorry about all those losses recently.

[poisontaster]

I'm so sorry. That is a LOT to get hit with all at once. ♥

[dine]

that's a lot to land all at once! I'm sorry you're dealing with so much just now, though it's nice that there' harmony within your own little furry pack