I think there are definitely very anti-ish dnw lists out there, but also people who interpret the rules about how only dnws in the signup will be enforced by the mod to mean you should dnw absolutely everything you wouldn't enjoy just in case. It is kind of a worst case scenario way of looking at it. For me, there are definitely common dnws I wouldn't have expected to be as common as they are, so I kind of appreciate people actually saying them so I don't have to be psychic. Which I am not good at, lol.