Honestly, I used to be just as bad as Rodney about embarrassing babbling around people I lusted/cared for. But that makes me want to watch him less, because it reminds me of what a goofball I was.

Defriending is so hard! I mean, I know that I'd prefer if people who actively skipped every post I made just defriended me so I'd have a better idea of who I'm actually talking to, but it's terrifying to turn that around and use the logic on myself. I just always think, what if they're already having a bad day, then I defriend them and it just makes it worse! However, I am fairly neurotic, so I have no idea if anyone else ever contemplates that kind of stuff.

Thankfully, this person is not on my flist, but they're still around.